wilkes

You are not Unwanted. Just hold on a little longer. Help is on the way.

Summer, I don't intend to be flip, but this is the last place on earth I would ever reveal the problems you have to contend with. If you have a longtime friend that you can trust to listen and not comment unless asked spill your guts, cry on their shoulder and be perfectly honest with them. Steer clear of preachers and anyone with a religious agenda, they prey on people (and that is not a pun) who are vulnerable.

summerday, you asked whether you are wrong in being hurt. No, you are not wrong. Your feelings are not right or wrong, they are just HOW YOU FEEL. It's good that you can acknowledge feeling hurt. Consider telling your daughter how you feel and ask why you were not included.

I removed a few posts for trolling and personal attacks (all from one user), along with the replies to those posts. Please don't feed the trolls!

Please be considerate if you answer . I am going through some things now that I don't know how to handle. I'm a senior and have been married for 53 years. I have never been this unhappy. I don't want riches just a home with a husband that loves me. I know I have many faults and have made too many mistakes in my life and Lord knows I would redo them if I could. I'm only human. But my husband has changed in the past few years that really hurt. I can't talk to him..it's his way or no way .But it's all my fault. Is it just me? Another thing came up about my daughter. I asked if you and her family would go with me to an event to watch a family member graduate. I was told her husband had to work that day and she doubted they would go. I talked to her the day of the event (just casual to see how they were doing) and she told me they had to hurry home to get ready to go to the event. Never even mentioned me. I know some people will say something smart but that really hurt me. Am I wrong in being hurt?